Stigma?

Do black woman have a stigma attached to Birth Control? Do we have a problem with using birth control? Also do we have a stigma attached to abortions? Do you feel it is wrong to have abortions, if so, why? If we do have stigmas attached to birth control and abortions, why is that?

"Just Friends"

Tell me people can adult men and women be "just friends" or is that totally out of the question? If yes, explain why you think it's possible? If you think it is highly unlikely, tell me why?